Relationships with men in search of mutual understanding

Multiples of articles in glossy women's magazines screaming bright headlines: "How to bring back the love", "How to ignite the flames of the senses", "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days."

However, most of these tips will not only help women, and vice versa - interfere!

In fact, women need one, try to understand men. And the main thing - to understand that we are different.

And if he forgot to congratulate your mother a happy birthday when the entire evening is silent, and so you need to talk to when he does not call, and you so want to hear his voice - that does not mean he does not love you.

At times, each of us, dials beloved friend, and in a trembling voice says: "He is so insensitive! "Or" He does not love me anymore! ". Not surprisingly, the initiators of divorce in 80% of cases it is women who are.

However, scientifically proven that man is not very clear idea what love is, and often confuses lust and craving love. He knows that he is well with her, madly misses when she is not around. Maybe this is love?

It often happens that the years pass, and only then the man realizes that he really likes. The woman immediately recognizes that there is no love, and so it is often the first stop relations.

Most women believe that men are not able to communicate. And this is partly true.

- We are together for two years, and he so rarely says that he loves! - Who among us has not heard similar complaints from friends?

In fact, men seem to be saying that word with the letter "L", they forever bind commitments.

Many of us wait for years while their beloved finally dare to say these few words that make a woman very happy: "Marry me."

Most men do not say these words because they do not like, but because for them it means a loss of freedom.

However, most men realize that marriage has its good side. He teaches us devotion, forbearance and tolerance. Self-restraint and other valuable qualities that are not claimed by single people.

The phrase "I love you" gives women much easier, because due to the specific structure of the brain, a woman's world is full of feelings, emotions, communication and words!

Every second in the world at least one pair of quarreling, one - parted, one appears.

If you value your relationship, you should not forget that men want power, success and sex.

Women - want warm relations, stability and love.

And worried about this as meaningless as to take offense at the fact that the rain.

It is therefore, very important is the understanding of possible conflicts due to differences of M and M, the desire to understand human behavior, which is the road for you.

Author Anastasia Khachatryan

Is it better to give to a friend please?

If you are going to make a gift, think how dear to you the person you want to please.

If a person is near and dear to you, then give him something fundamental. For example, anything from silver or gold.

Silver helps to harmonize the energy balance of the human body, while gold symbolizes power and wealth.

Going to the store for a gift, remember that your friend loves, what his interests. Think about the fact that it would give pleasure to your friend.

If you know you dream of your loved one, think, and maybe you are able to implement it?

The main thing - it does not give away anything unnecessary or that very quickly will become worthless. For example, fragile items (clocks, mirrors), it is not necessary to give cosmetics, perfume need to be very careful.

If you decide to give a pet a good think about the fact, and if your friend wants four-legged friend? Does he have the time to care for it?

If you are still in doubt, remember who zodiac sign is your friend. Knowing this, you can quickly make a decision and buy something interesting.

For example,

Aries   choose decorations made of natural stones. Any items made by hand, more importantly, that they are in the singular and only made for him. He appreciates originality, individuality, originality and surprise.

Taurus   it is best to give something functional. The big plus is if the main gift to attach something tasty, like a box of chocolates.

Gemini   will be happy to several small thing, the main thing for them to compose an interesting, and perhaps comic congratulation. They appreciate the wit and originality.

Crayfish   They prefer the same as the calves. If you donate them iron, they will not be offended, but only rejoice.

From lions   you need to be very careful. They like very expensive gifts (jewelry of gold and silver). If you decide to give him a pen, you really risk being out of favor, though, if the handle is made of gold ...

Virgin   prefer interesting gifts with meaning. They will be glad good book.

Libra   will be delighted if you give them something of art or jewelry. Will be happy bouquet of flowers, beautifully decorated and with a card.

Scorpions   choose gifts enigmatic, mysterious, with its history. They appreciate in the present unusual and original.

Archers   will be glad to any gift. They do not care whether or not an expensive gift. The main thing for him - this is the attention of family and friends. The joy of communication.

Capricorns   Registered love gifts. They appreciate the mystery, elegance and originality. Will be glad handmade gifts.

Aquarius   You can donate anything electrical, such as a vacuum cleaner or a food processor. It would be delighted if give him a computer.

Fish   I prefer something romantic. For example, music CDs, books, any talismanchiki.

Author: Tatiana Markinova.

How to stay friends after the divorce

The Internet provides a lot of useful and useless tips, how to stay friends after the divorce. Let's not build fantastic castles in the air, do not let anyone deceive himself and say fair enough - not always after any divorce can remain in good or even tolerance.

First of all, it concerns cases in which the former spouse is systematically mocked his second half, beat her, or commit other illegal acts. It's not up to friendship, then it is desirable for the same streets with the former and not to go at all, his eyes once again not to get caught.

Well, in the case of divorce, where the sharply negative aspect is no crime, remain friends, or at least to maintain the former normal human relationships is quite normal.

This is especially true of families who had to have a child of divorce. Whether we like it or not, and the baby, and, girls and boys, Dad needs. For us it is (probably) a scoundrel, that for us it is the former, and for the son or daughter, he is still the best and most unique. And with the material side always better if the former takes an active part in the fate of her child after a divorce.

By the way, the former, too, are different. Some people leave everything to the last thread and go with skinny shopping bag in hand, each other a nail hammered them believe. Some are often happy to communicate with the baby, while others are limited to a phone call on his birthday. Therefore, common rules, how to stay friends, or save after the divorce with the former normal human relationships, in principle, does not exist.

But there are some guidelines that need to be addressed.

Firstly, they relate to property disputes tend to arise often. If peace is not possible to share acquired, need to be guided by the letter of the law. At the first stage it will be enough to appeal to the good and to consult a lawyer.

But even if all divided amicably, it is desirable to still fix it on paper. As practice shows, it often happens that after the amicable section takes some time and the former begins to demand his, blood - whether it has advised someone, or something else in his mind turned over. So it is better to err and to protect themselves from such.

Second Council regards non-interference in the new life of the former husband.

Namely, not confrontation with his new passion, not publicly displayed any defects or her husband's moments known only to you and so on. No matter how sweet spot, for example, for treason, after a divorce you need to learn a bit about the future, because such a useless frankness can hurt primarily herself.

The third council for those who realized his mistake and wants to return to the former.

In this case, we must act wisely. First, in a pleasant conversation on the positive, to show him that you are not enemies, but just good friends. It can be a nice conversation with the former, in any case, it in no way blaming. The first stage is quite efficacious light humorous talk about nothing or about mutual acquaintances, friends.

Then you can go with the former in a cheap cafe, for example, McDonald's. Then, as if by chance to ask him to help in some detail, for example, to install new software on your computer. Oh, and then on the situation.

Perhaps behaving friendly, but not the scandals, moving carefully, step by step, you and return their lost happiness, of course, if you need it.

In any case, your ex will not turn away from you will not speak ill of your buddies, you will remain friends, and then - time will tell what it will end. Life is a long thing. That it happens sometimes, no storyteller invented not by force.