Without complexes, most importantly, he is my favorite

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Have you ever wondered what all woman are different from men?

Yeah ... Yeah ... But not guessed! Rather, there are physiological differences, of course, but that's not the point. Have you ever heard of a young man dreamed of a princess in a carriage drawn by white horses sixes? You have not heard? I, too.

The man, whether he bald, curves and stomach type in the ninth month, is still confident that he handsome irresistible.

A woman - beautiful and clever girl with three higher education - is going through, it is not good enough.

And interestingly, it is necessary to open any magazine as a fan scattered recommendations how to draw, how to marry, how to please him, as his hold, and if you ran, how to return.

Girl with mother's milk to absorb what they have, should have. And they are no one and nothing must. And by the way, the woman - the same person, as a man, but for the most part, more beautiful and refined.

And because of the subtlety of the soul, complex organization have clever and beautiful problems. She wants romance, love serenade under the balcony, scarlet sails and white roses. But in real life it's different, alas. This world is built men in their male laws.

Therefore, every woman has two ways.

The first - to adapt, to accept, to become the number two, even if it's smarter and more talented than bury their talents and dreams.

And the second way - most to build their lives.

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This, of course, great - to be married, to love and be loved, to fall asleep and wake up in the same bed with her beloved husband. But if that person is you. If he is ready to help you to become a personality, or at least not to interfere in this difficult matter.

Some men believe that they are smarter and more important in life because they, unlike women, are not a household and private sector - in the pants. This outdated misconception. It is not necessary to meet the type that you absolutely do not like, because of the fear of being an old maid. Especially since the maid in our time remains problematic, and the older we are, sooner or later all of us will.

The man loves his eyes. Sure. But women, too, not like a man with a bad figure, weak muscles, loose body. For it is as relevant proverb: "What in that bed, it is better to younger." Many business woman now either leave the old men, and go for younger men, or to spare her husband, put more eyes on the young lover.

Girls like men's dazzling smile. They are sick of rotten teeth and bad breath. What kind of kisses in such advanced cases can there be? Now you can often find the pearl that adorns the bald man, it makes it more sexy. Well, once the Tiffany said that bald-in-law good pancakes oven ...

The lush, thick, clean men's hair is less attractive for women than for women pouring strands - for men. So that men would do well to open a women's magazine and read how to properly care for your hair.

The same can be said about the wrinkles that are supposedly decorated men. I do not dispute that the Pug Shar-Pei and even some breeds of dogs folds very decorate the muzzle. But the wrinkles on a man's face just kill the libido of a young woman.

The case, when a woman marries a man who is much older than her, says only that a woman in the shower remained a girl - she needs is not a grown man, a husband, a lover, and my dad. Well, it's her right. What else "gets" a woman? Hair sticking out of the nose and ears ...

As I recall, the ancient Germans claimed that a man must be powerful, smelly and hairy. Well, well, and still unshaven. On TV screens and the pages of glossy magazines try to instill that unshaven - it's sexy and generally a sign of a real man. And you tried to kiss a hedgehog? Or with sandpaper? No?

You can recommend this procedure for men who do not touch the red skin favorite. However, if your favorite? Pet cherish, cherish. But there is another side to the coin - if a man comes to a woman unshaven, she was to blame. Paradoxically ...

Men do not feel worse than a dog, what can and what can not. Sixth Sense determines male sex, self-respecting woman or not, she highly appreciates itself or allow itself to lower the floor. And what's interesting - relationships are built from the beginning, from the first minute, even a moment. And do not get in any circumstances be artificially proud, if a woman is not alone in its essence.

However, you can change yourself - your own or with the help of suggestion using sessions with a psychologist. Low self-esteem among girls, unfortunately, formed in childhood, usually under the influence of their parents, but, fortunately, make the effort self-esteem can still improve. And in dealing with men is from time to time to step on the throat of his own song.

For example, he took the phone and you do not call. And you for days on end hypnotize silent unit: "Call me, call!" And then do not stand up and call yourself. It should not. Rather, you must first ask yourself what you want from men. If a serious relationship, it is not the first call in any case.

Man will never be appreciate a woman who is courting his own. If you want just to sleep with him, then you can call. As a rule, men do not deny women in sex. Unfortunately, more and more women, especially young girls, guys allow swear in his presence.

Think about whether you highly appreciates a man whose mouth pours dirt? And what can we expect from him in the future? If it is already so behave in your presence, it is close, it seems, to battering. Once our grandmothers gave a slap for kissing, and now it's in my head no one will come.

But if you are looking for a serious relationship, take the first winking man to go to bed with him. Of course, if you are not a supporter of sex one night. And if a man is blackmailing you - either in bed or out the door - let him go without regret. It is not the man who is willing to build a nest and build a common house. You will lie with him or not, he's still you throw.

In general, women's sex need to deal not with the purpose to keep a man, but to have fun. If you are unhappy man, if you do not like it, and tell him. Straight and short. And it's not just a bed. For example: it saddens me that you have not washed the dishes; I'm disappointed that you stayed and did not call.

And do not mess with boring, whiners who complain about their ex-wives and girlfriends, with the miser and selfish, run from momma's little boys without looking back.

You do not get married to die, and to be happy. My wise grandmother used to say: "get married - not to attack as if married not divide."

Be biased in choosing a husband. And be happy, right by him.

The trouble that we'll survive

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Divorce: a lot of trouble that we will survive.

But sometimes ... favorite person next moves from the category of relatives in distant misty field, now do not want him to talk enthusiastically about the ridiculous situation around the shopping center. I do not want to let go of her hair, at his request, a warm flannel pajamas seems more comfortable,

contrary to what a slippery silk underwear. I do not even want to think about why it happened, do not want to remember, do not want to reopen. Just do not feel like it. Sometimes he comes, that moment of truth, when it is clear awareness that life can not go on like this.

Life has changed. And calls for a change. Sooner or later pops up the word "divorce" - as bitter medicine, you know what you need, but can not swallow. Divorce - it's hard. It's very, very hard, terrible, ashamed, sad, unsure of the correctness of the chosen path, rising black residue - mourns the days and minutes, no power to look into the eyes of children. But gradually everything goes.

Ahead - new (often in every sense) life, a new relationship, a new affection, a new way of life. Maybe a new love, you never know. In order to better survive the difficulties of divorce, you have to be ready for them, because forewarned - is forearmed.

Below - some recommendations how not to lose your head and quietly get out of this situation.

1. Property. Because this item and submitted first that it was because of him going on most of the disputes and conflicts. Even if you do not want and left would be what stand - judge for sober. "Marital property" - is not only a legal term.



Well, what if you have never worked, led house servants and nannies teach children - you were part of the life of your husband. It is thanks to you, too, he became what he is today. And that is exactly worth the money. Remove all the questions, of course, it makes the marriage contract, but for him it was necessary to take care of before the wedding.

2. Children. Most often, the children remain with their mother - but it's just traditional. And it does not mean that the father has no right to fight for custody. Better (if possible) to address these issues at home with her ex-husband amicably, instead of pulling it all in the courtroom and injure the psyche of children.

3. Emotions. Even if there is no psychological intimacy, surely left the proximity (or call it affection) emotional. You shared with that person shelter, a bed, a table, thoughts! You're used to it, after all! So, it is necessary to remind ourselves that at the time of the wedding, you, too, were an adult and intelligent being. It was signed in the registry office set deliberately. And now - no, he has not changed. Both of you have changed. And each of you is now the other way.

4. Process. Be prepared for a long trial delays, especially if there is a property claim or you have not figured out with care. In addition, many of the judges impute his duty to at least try to reconcile spouses - have to endure.

5. Changes in life "after." Prepare yourself for what you have to completely change your life. Most likely, you will have a new home that will need to build a new rhythm of life, who will have to get used to. Maybe the children will have a new school - kindergarten, college - talk to them about it.

Perhaps you will need to continue their education or get a job. It's quite simple things, they lie on the surface. But in the confusion of days and court hearings about these little things can be forgotten. And be unprepared.

6. Support. Man is designed so that needs support and understanding. In the case of divorce, this service is best to buy from a professional - the analyst. He will be able to clarify some points where clearer than it will make a girlfriend, will not cry, and sigh, as a mom, not will spread throughout the area, as it will make the neighbor.

7. Feelings of guilt. Features of our upbringing and mentality (and indeed, it is put at the genetic level), such that the man - the head and breadwinner, the woman - homemaker. If the focus was extinguished, the woman's fault?

This is absolutely not true. The hearth was extinguished, because it ended in the wood, it someone is splashed with water, blew a gale-force wind, the rain - you never know what the reasons may be!

And I do not keep track - it's not the reason. It - complexes. And they should get rid of.





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