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How to marry a rich man. Letter 1. Hello! You wrote: Lady interest - ONLY
MARRIAGE
. Instead, it offers: Youth (25 years), appearance, manners, elegance and ability to keep the house.
I think: I think Man interested in - just sex and so she did not catch the fact! Ad better write:
Girl, about which you dreamed fulfill your most cherished sexual desires with great pleasure! (But only after the official painting of the registry office (I'm a girl decent, faithful, educated, sophisticated and economic) as a gift to get your dream house for $ 500,000 in London. Sincerely, NV.
Letter 2. Generally this strange picture of all the above stories you get. It is of course a Barbie, but ... she did not ask to give her money because she will marry someone married. She was just trying to determine the financial level, where it (in her opinion) will live comfortably. Did you see it and keep going to the house ... Mammoth certainly big, but everyone has his own. But the man was not afraid to say it openly, in spite of public opinion.
Letter 3. She, at least, was honest. She told the truth about what she values and about how much she values herself. How many couples living together only because of the fear to start his life anew, but rather to expose themselves to the market and try to sell yourself. Of course, I am exaggerating.
How much hypocrisy in the love that we try to love one another. Well, what a banker or trader better than this girl. They understand what "product" they are looking for and what price are willing to fork out for it. And the fear that the girl that business - one "not to sell too cheap" to buy a quality product.
Not long ago, I said that I can not love the weak, and hence the poor men. Actually, it went wrong as I wanted. But because of this I was able to overcome this fear of "bad bargain", which in varying degrees, sitting in each of us. A very small number of people knowing unconditional love. Who cares how we trade. But bargain, bargain, you told me, I tell you, do I that way.
The girl turned out to be bold enough to move beyond the scope of stereotypes and speak openly about their feelings and desires. Do all inherent in such courage? Read what they write on dating sites. And you can read "I want to love and be loved (oops)." This is not the most trade and whether the fear is not a bad bargain?
Ambitions and challenges.
1. The level of ambition
2. Does the author that it is possible to realize such ambitions.
The ambition is, the more desirable it seems inaccessible. This is natural, but it's not true. In our case. Curious fact.
How to find a rich man dearly, Man
For women with low social level hard to find a high-ranking man. There are many women and men are expensive not really need. If the low-ranking woman has a natural gift - the beauty, she was transferred to the category above. Education and training to increase the value.
For women with high levels of social man is easier to find expensive. Since little dear women, men and expensive - a lot. Men themselves are looking for these. For men with high social level to find the woman of their levels of heavy, as such men as it is plentiful, but the women at this level is not enough. High competition.
Conclusion:
1. For women - to find a decent man, it is necessary to raise their level and then he "will find itself".
2. For men - to a worthy woman found herself need to make yourself "different from others" criterion, which is difficult to repeat. This is usually a high level of creative activity, which is manifested in the high income. Creativity can be in any field, not necessarily the only pictures or write music. Business high level - also creativity.
The output from the output: Looking lofty ambitions to get a decent man. At the same time, the higher the mountain, the harder it is to climb. And then it just depends on the person - climb up it or not. Someone not begin. Another half-way stop. Units get to the top. Life is the same way. And only depends on the moral character of ALL.
As a simple:
1. Initiative activity - because nothing is being done by itself and does not come up. Have to do.
2. High ambitions - the only way to stand out from the "crowd" and get out of life.
3. Courage - because high ambition is always uncertainty, and this may scare.
4. Optimism - the higher ambitions, the more likely (different random and not always good). To believe it is necessary for the best. Then it might be.
Situation. About fears.
Suppose someone offers you the almighty fulfill your every desire (within the laws of physics. They can not be forfeited). At the same time it ensures that when you do it will be for you it will be nothing. No one can take away from you it is. It's not complicate your life. In maintaining that the procedure does not need to spend time and effort. It is self-sustaining. In general, if you get it, it will not be worse. Q: Knowing that will not be worse, if you wish the Prince and myself a lot of money?
Of course! That would have nothing to fear, right? If this will not bring problems, why not? The man who has everything and no problems. Dream Nanai! :-). But, in actual fact, this does not happen to have everything, and problems in life was not to agree? Problems are always greater than the TOTAL, the more of a problem (but not more problems).
Big problems - that is, they are ambitious. They include many other people with whom you come across his ambitions and desires. These people begin to interfere with you. Because you disturb them. More problems - this is when they are small, but a lot of them. For example, to give credit, car repaired pull, vacation money to collect, renovate an apartment, find a better job, children, etc. etc. Here you not to disturb anyone, because no one, in fact, not necessary.
Acquainted with the ordinary man just - a lot of them around. But to find a prince difficult, as, elementary, not every empty place where the princes live. Looking lofty ambitions to get a decent man. At the same time, guarantee the high ambitions challenges (what you have not yet decided), the truth and promise a rich harvest of everything, but do not guarantee :-). And every man that logic, if not understand, the "spinal cord" feels.
Therefore, everyone in my life is a simple choice:
1. Living with the usual problems (family, security, friends, self-actualization)
2. Life is NOT the usual problems (wealth, power, influence)
Tier solve problems easier, but not interesting. Problems of the second level to solve difficult, but interesting. The problems of the first level are virtually guaranteed can be solved. Problems of the second level to solve possible, but it is nothing and there is no guarantee. It's just possible. Life Skills. There is at all. But the quality is lame.
Anyone can solve the typical problems - provide themselves with the necessary - money for necessary social ties the minimum level. This teaches culture. All "above the norm" is from the category frills. Culture teaches receive from the excesses of life.
Excesses - it is wealth, that is, the culture is not taught to be rich (in various senses of the word). Wealth - this is when the level of what I have is superior to the conventional. More money than all. Love is better. Widely as possible.
The problem of girls from America is that it is not taught (no parents, no friends, no books, no films) as, in practice, to find a rich husband. She want. But she can not.
Therefore, the questions it asks, very practical:
- Where do you single rich men hang time? Give me the names of bars, restaurants, gyms.
- What qualities do you look for in a mate?
- In an age range I should be targeting (I'm 25)?
- What profession should I care? Everyone knows - lawyer, banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out?
- How do you decide when you get married, and when - just meet? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY.
See? She does not know where to find rich singles. I do not know what women are like, etc. etc. And her courage is not that she dared to say well, that is looking for a rich husband, and that she was able to admit that she does not know, she does not know how to find a husband.
So she made the strongest move! She asked the men where to find them and how they can marry. Who said that it is "just a Barbie"? It's a smart, brave, active and ambitious girl with a business approach to life. Other in its place would be a miracle waiting, but complained to life. But it is not.
Such little girls. And so expensive men should pay attention to it. If it wisely to build a relationship, she just boldly and actively be a career, for example. Just now, it is important for her attitude and that is what she does. For her, this is the main goal in life, and she does everything to achieve it. We blame her? For the purpose ?! Because she dared to publicly admit what others can not admit to themselves ?!
When Ksenia Sobchak, the screen says its only interested millionaires unanimously condemned for its low level of morality. At the same time, when those who condemn it, every day indulge in the high ambitions, because they are afraid that they can not implement them, they condemn themselves? For cowardice?
Ambition
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If you refer to the letters, you will find in them a remarkable phrase, illustrating my thoughts. Here's a "Ethnicity - pretty but not beautiful. Social level - above my desirable." What is the level of ambition? Yes way.
Normal, that is, their complete absence. "I want to get something that others do not covet."
After all, you can get a prince, but no guarantee that it will not lead then other women - beautiful, headstrong younger, ambitious, right? Therefore, such a guarantee is necessary to give himself. How? Find the "ordinary, normal this man (woman)", on which no one really would not covet. That's all. In life, there was stability. I have something that nobody wants, so I do not take this one!
Set goals in life easier. Then no one will take it. Because it is no use to anyone.
In general, we can say that the prince no one is looking. Everyone is looking for "fairly good" or "normal", but not the best. So, the girls with high ambitions, can be absolutely quiet. Rivals you have very little.
Where you only stars. And the stars of the competition can not. Heaven enough for everyone!
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